While living in this house will obey the rules. When you have your home will obey your own rules. This does not rule democracy, did not campaign to be your father, you do not vote for me. We are father and son by the grace of God, and I respectfully accept the privilege and responsibility terrifying. By accepting acquire a duty to play the role of fathers.
I'm not your buddy, our ages are very different. We share many things but we are not peers. I am your father And that is a hundred times more than a friend!.
I am also your friend, but we are in completely different levels. In this house you'll do as I say and you should not question me because everything that I ordered will be motivated by love. You will be hard to understand until you have a son, meanwhile trust me ...
Your Father
MOST OF THE PROBLEM IS THAT WE ARE LIVING THROUGH BOTH BUENA ONDA PAPA,
Responsibility, Honor, Shame, Respect, Elementary Principles.
Well, but ... What happens to us? Which is what leads us to assume that someone else has the responsibility of caring for our children, if we who are supposed to be that more love, we do not take that responsibility?
It's ridiculous that those committees in which public officials, owners of bars and clubs, members of citizen committees and the media blame each other for something that is just irresponsible of us parents.
What if in bars they sell alcohol to minors, that if the traffic police take bribes, if not close these places at the appointed time, that young people leave these places, totally drunk. " But where are the parents of this child who took over the account? Who gets in your house to those hours and in that state? Who gave the money to enter the bar, for alcohol and bribery? Where are the parents who gave the car to a minor who is not able to take responsibility and drive even when taken?
Please! In what parents think of those young people who leave home at 11 pm, having started to take from the evening, during the game Striped Tiger or?
what parents are thinking of the girl of 16 or 17, he'll get pullback twinkie's mom, not wanting to learn that this mother is not even in town?
do we want to pass the responsibility to decide in whose hands they put their life if they are not yet able to decide what color to paint your hair today highlighted hair, black better tomorrow.
Why give them our daughters leave go to sleep after the drive home from a friend and they carry the responsibility to take the couple of 19 or 20 years, who knows what time and we do not know how then might take over Why do we want to believe who are mature and responsible if we ourselves are not we being? We become blind to the dangers of convenience, we become the "cool", "is that I trust you I have my daughter."
What we have is fear and laziness, we do not act as parents.
Our children need not be his friends ... They already have plenty of friends their age.
Children need parents brave and responsible, in support of basic principles and then put rules are there to see it fulfilled.
will depend on how security My son's a nightclub bartender? or traffic officer, or if the owner of the disc does not comply with the law and closes at 6:00 am instead of at 1:00 am?
I think they should have a timetable, "but the parents brought to their home regardless of the time the bars close.
What we are afraid, Dad?
Why can not we put rules?
Why can not we demand that?
Why abandon our children to pursue our own comforts ?
If young people do not need a guide if needed no limits and no authority to whom respect ... parents would not exist.
We commissioned a very special mission, the largest: cooperate with God in creation and it is us who will hold us accountable for our children, not the owner of the bar, and the friend of our son who was driving drunk when he crashed, or the boyfriend who is looking at how quickly and how well it handles "controls" the car still being drunk, or the police or the teacher ...
anyone else!
Never, no one can make our children return to home on time and safe, if we can not do it. There is no law, no schedule, no officer can do for our children, we do not want to do.
act as a parent is very difficult, and of course, hear from them "is that all are afraid of you, Dad," it does not matter!
We are not election campaign to be the most popular dad the year, because as every parent who has touched and it would be stupid to jeopardize the safety of our children to look good and be liked his friends and even more stupid to use our children as instruments of revenge against our failed relationships in this age of so many parents divorced.
is horrible to hear of deaths of boys so that have had the misfortune of running into these other young children of "cool." Even hear of deaths of children due to accidents or murders that have not been in the care of his mom and / or mother. It's amazing to see the children (as) playing alone in the street with no care and it's amazing to see our young people stuck in the bars during the weekend drinking and taking drugs many times either by their own volition and / or fostered by so many people without morals, without scruples
It would be nice to win the respect of our children, taking charge of your life, making us responsible for your arrival time, of what they take, their skills, letting them know what we expect of them and creating the means help in their fight to get it.
put your feet on land, we are aware ...
"BAD PARENTS Guatemalan society" ... BUT WE WANT OUR CHILDREN!
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